Have we cured everyone in this class of name calling and bullying? Certainly not. But in the end, there is not a student in that class who is thinking about name calling in the same way they did before this unit. As a class, we now have a common language and a common experience to come back to and address issues of name calling and bullying.
“Using the Misfits to Discuss Sexual Orientation Issues” by Richard Wilson and Lisa McGilloway
Grades 5-8
5 Stars
This book tells the story of The Gang of Five, a group of friends who are picked on at their school for being different. Bobby, the main character, helps his friend Addie to run for the student council on a platform of no more name calling. This book explores how people are different, what it means to be a minority, what the impact of name calling is, and how to stand up for yourself.
This book made me wish that every middle school student could belong to a Gang of Five. These kids are smart, unique, confidant, and picked on. I think everyone can relate to at least one of these characters. Joe, Addie, Skeezy, and Bobby reminded me of kids that I went to school with and kids that I have worked with as an adult. Sometimes its easy to imagine these kids becoming the successful adults that Howe lets us know they became in the end of his book, and sometimes it is just as easy to imagine them losing their confidence and falling victim to the pitfalls of low self-esteem. We’ve all heard recent examples of the worst outcomes of kids that have been picked on in the news. As an adult, I’ve often struggled with how I can help kids who are picked on. In the past, I usually found myself trying to help these kids by focusing on building their self-confidence and by trying to reassure them that the pettiness of adolescence is only temporary. This book encourages kids who are the name-callers to think about how their actions affect their classmates, point out the strengths and positive unique aspects of the kids who are picked on, and show examples of how kids who are picked on can stand up for themselves. As the quote at the top of the blog states, this book won’t solve the problem entirely, but it could be a great starting point for a conversation.
I would probably use this book as a read-aloud book or a reading group book. I would want to be sure to discuss the book with my students.
Click here for an article about the author, James Howe
Click here to visit the No Name Calling Week website
Click here to visit the No Name Calling Week website